happy new new year

Was online with a friend from school.She just got married.I asked her what's it like to be married.She said it's weird eventhough she's been living-in with her boyfriend for a while.I just didn't like the part when she started telling me all the negative things about being married.She makes simple things sound complicated and hard to resolve.

I know it's weird now that people are actually talking about Shu and I getting married and all.At some point in the minds of those whose known me for a while,I may still be a child.Reality check.I'll be 24 next year.I've passed the age limit as an adult for about 3 years already.I know I may sound a little kid-ish when ever I talk about animes and drawings and music.The thing is,growing up is an ongoing process.Just because I am childlike and love things which may seem kiddish doesn't mean I am not matured in other ways.

Shu and I have talked about a lot of things and we have roughly sketched out our life plans.My sister was telling me about obsessions and how it may cause a tragic ending to the fairy tale I've built.I am aware of such things.I am also aware of drawing the line between reality and the adventure of life I have laid out in my head.I think my sister forgot the part whereby eventhough there are and will be many obstacles and that at some point dreams will end and I'd have to wake up,I can still put in a whole lot of effort in balancing reality and my little fairytale and have best of both worlds if I want to.

kat tails

The story of Kecik and Fei Mao never ends.
Fei Mao can't really accept Kecik.
Kecik still loves chasing Fei Mao (along with the other 2 cats) around the house.
Shu and I are still Kecik's official parents and we are trying so very hard to make him grow a little more coz he is too damn skinny.
Kecik is officially spoiled just like Fei Mao and the other cats in the house.