I've always thought of living my life as a kid.Didn't think I'd have to come to a point where I'd have to make serious decisions.Some decisions come with serious consequences.Sometimes,it affects other people's lives.
I used think negatively on having kids due to numerous reasons which would eventually come down to financial and economical factors.Only because,I was born and raised here in the city.Everything about the city requires money.
Shu and I have always gone through the pros and cons of having kids later in our lives.Most of the time,we plan not to have any coz we're too selfish.We are so obsessed and absorbed with ourselves and eachother.We forget what our lives would be like 20-30 years down the road later on. (if we'd ever live that long)
I don't like thinking that far ahead.It's just not me.I love taking life as it comes.I realized that life in the city has side effects on how I think.Maybe it would be alright to have a kid to play tag or hide and seek with.I keep forgetting that I'm not going to stay young forever.
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Having kids do hef positive values but considering about our plan of living and cost of living, maybe it is good to not hef one yet.i'm selfish because i dont think dat i'm willing to take care of other people except for you.Kecik is a special case.hehe.But whenever the time comes and when you're willing to hef one,i think i will be ready.
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