It's that some people just do not know where to draw the line when it comes to imposing shit on to others. On the other end of the spectrum are people who do not know how to tell people to shut the fuck up and just fuck off.
I was there,once.Being pushed around.It could be anybody but in my case it was family.Telling me what to do.Telling how to do shit.Telling me what I should do with MY life.I followed coz I had no choice or I was just being polite.But I can only be polite to a certain extent.
The thing is,if it was just anybody,I would have easily either tell them to fuck off or I can just not have them in my life anymore.They are not paying my bills or raising my kids or helping me in any way.But with family,it sometimes can get a bit delicate coz ya know.......you're related.You are bound to bump into them at least once a year.
If once a year was my case,I could still be ignoring them and just let it slide.Unfortunately,it's a much closer relationship than just meeting once a year.So,I kind put up with their shit for a while.A long while.Then,one day.I just had enough.
So,I literally told them to shut the fuck up and fuck off.They don't pay my bills.They don't raise or feed my kids.They don't provide any form of anything basically for me.So just FUCK OFF.
My life changed after that and I have never been happier.
It's not that I don't ever want to see them again.It's not like I never saw them again.I saw them,several times already.The only difference is that they know what to say and what not to say to me.Which is kinda nice ^_^
Monday, December 31, 2018
Wednesday, December 26, 2018
Genting Pokémon Festival
It's been a few days but only now do I have time to put this up!!!
It's really fun. Be a trainer! I failed.
The original plan was to take the kids to Skytropolis but then we saw the Pokémons and then there was a booth and I wanted a Pikachu hat too so I signed us all up as trainers :D Got to the Pikachu dance just in time and danced away.
Pika pika pikachu!!! Pika..... Pika pika pikachu!!! Pikapikapikapikapika!!!!!
The original plan was to take the kids to Skytropolis but then we saw the Pokémons and then there was a booth and I wanted a Pikachu hat too so I signed us all up as trainers :D Got to the Pikachu dance just in time and danced away.
Pika pika pikachu!!! Pika..... Pika pika pikachu!!! Pikapikapikapikapika!!!!!
Thursday, November 29, 2018
Thursday, November 22, 2018
After so long
I watched this video again but this time, with my kids. Apart from the language Yusuf asked me if this band consists of 3 boys and a girl.
NO. That would be Bill Kaulitz.
Thursday, November 15, 2018
My husband asked me a question yesterday
It's about how I feel about under aged kids smoking.Do I feel like these are problematic kids?
First of all,SMOKING is a verb.It's an addiction (if you do it right).DO I think kids who smoke are problematic people?
No.
They are kids.WHERE THE FUCK ARE THEIR GUARDIANS?!!!
Where the fuck are the responsible adults who should not be allowing them to get a hold of those things?
I find a lot of people with a lot problems in my life.Adults and kids alike.
I came from a school where there are a lot of rich kids and average or poor kids all put into a single institution.I had a conversation with someone about going to a public school in an urban area.A lot of shit happens.Too much for a bunch of 13 year-olds to handle if you ask me.
I had friends who came from rich families but their parents are non-existent.They come home from school and they have to cook meals for themselves.Some have maids.Sometimes,they'd have friends over just to hangout and then we'd all go out (on our own).We were 14 at the time.I had a friend who'd get a 1000 bucks a month to do what ever she wants.She'd sometimes give us money just for fun.Do I think she's a problematic child?No.She's a nice person.Her vocabulary and choices of activities are different from mine. Our academics are average.We lack interest in some subjects and we enjoy learning some subjects more than others.We were not over achievers.Due to some school rules problem,we just never bothered with after school activities like clubs or sports.
I think when I was about 15 years old,I found myself jamming with a bunch of girls at a house somewhere near where I lived.My batch mate asked me to come along jamming with these other girls whom I have never met.They were older but none of them were above 18 years of age.It was cool.And yes,they were smoking.All of them.They did ask me if I wanted to try smoking but I said no coz I knew the consequences back at home if my folks knew I smoked.But I didn't mind the fact that they were smoking coz one of the girls' dad was the one who gave her the cigarettes for her to enjoy with her friends.
So many kids get suspended from school throughout my school years there.It's mostly disciplinary issues.Were those kids poor and stupid?No.They came from rich families and they were very intelligent kids.Maybe they were bored of school.At least that's what I thought.I was struggling with my grades and trying so damn hard to pass the damn geography paper but for these kids,school was a breeze.I had classmates who'd smoke weed during lunch breaks and came back to class later.They smelled awful but they were the nicest bunch of people I've ever gotten to know.
Personally,I feel like when I was in school,I was stuck between trying to pass exams and staying on track with classes but at the same time,picking the right friends wasn't that much of a big deal coz I was friends with who ever who wanted to be friends with me.A lot of kids in my school had a lot of problems but that never made them bad people.There are also some snobs from rich families who think they are better than the rest of us.Again,I don't think they are problematic.They were raised that way.
Smoking does not define anything.My dad struggled so long trying to quit smoking.He did it.He is still the same old man I've known all my life.
First of all,SMOKING is a verb.It's an addiction (if you do it right).DO I think kids who smoke are problematic people?
No.
They are kids.WHERE THE FUCK ARE THEIR GUARDIANS?!!!
Where the fuck are the responsible adults who should not be allowing them to get a hold of those things?
I find a lot of people with a lot problems in my life.Adults and kids alike.
I came from a school where there are a lot of rich kids and average or poor kids all put into a single institution.I had a conversation with someone about going to a public school in an urban area.A lot of shit happens.Too much for a bunch of 13 year-olds to handle if you ask me.
I had friends who came from rich families but their parents are non-existent.They come home from school and they have to cook meals for themselves.Some have maids.Sometimes,they'd have friends over just to hangout and then we'd all go out (on our own).We were 14 at the time.I had a friend who'd get a 1000 bucks a month to do what ever she wants.She'd sometimes give us money just for fun.Do I think she's a problematic child?No.She's a nice person.Her vocabulary and choices of activities are different from mine. Our academics are average.We lack interest in some subjects and we enjoy learning some subjects more than others.We were not over achievers.Due to some school rules problem,we just never bothered with after school activities like clubs or sports.
I think when I was about 15 years old,I found myself jamming with a bunch of girls at a house somewhere near where I lived.My batch mate asked me to come along jamming with these other girls whom I have never met.They were older but none of them were above 18 years of age.It was cool.And yes,they were smoking.All of them.They did ask me if I wanted to try smoking but I said no coz I knew the consequences back at home if my folks knew I smoked.But I didn't mind the fact that they were smoking coz one of the girls' dad was the one who gave her the cigarettes for her to enjoy with her friends.
So many kids get suspended from school throughout my school years there.It's mostly disciplinary issues.Were those kids poor and stupid?No.They came from rich families and they were very intelligent kids.Maybe they were bored of school.At least that's what I thought.I was struggling with my grades and trying so damn hard to pass the damn geography paper but for these kids,school was a breeze.I had classmates who'd smoke weed during lunch breaks and came back to class later.They smelled awful but they were the nicest bunch of people I've ever gotten to know.
Personally,I feel like when I was in school,I was stuck between trying to pass exams and staying on track with classes but at the same time,picking the right friends wasn't that much of a big deal coz I was friends with who ever who wanted to be friends with me.A lot of kids in my school had a lot of problems but that never made them bad people.There are also some snobs from rich families who think they are better than the rest of us.Again,I don't think they are problematic.They were raised that way.
Smoking does not define anything.My dad struggled so long trying to quit smoking.He did it.He is still the same old man I've known all my life.
Wednesday, November 14, 2018
Conversations in the car
Who would have thought that one day we would be dancing (and singing) Icelandic dance techno music but here we are......
Saturday, November 10, 2018
In my shallow mind filled with first world problems
I cannot understand why I like expensive things. It drives me crazy.
I always tell my husband that I thank God that he's not into motorbikes (doesn't matter cheap or expensive) because we might have had problems going out on dates. Perspiration and smell.
I cannot understand why politicians cannot look supermodel good. We're stuck here having to look at them everywhere but they are not the slightest bit appealing to look at. It pains me so much.
I always tell my husband that I thank God that he's not into motorbikes (doesn't matter cheap or expensive) because we might have had problems going out on dates. Perspiration and smell.
I cannot understand why politicians cannot look supermodel good. We're stuck here having to look at them everywhere but they are not the slightest bit appealing to look at. It pains me so much.
Wednesday, November 07, 2018
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