It's that some people just do not know where to draw the line when it comes to imposing shit on to others. On the other end of the spectrum are people who do not know how to tell people to shut the fuck up and just fuck off.
I was there,once.Being pushed around.It could be anybody but in my case it was family.Telling me what to do.Telling how to do shit.Telling me what I should do with MY life.I followed coz I had no choice or I was just being polite.But I can only be polite to a certain extent.
The thing is,if it was just anybody,I would have easily either tell them to fuck off or I can just not have them in my life anymore.They are not paying my bills or raising my kids or helping me in any way.But with family,it sometimes can get a bit delicate coz ya know.......you're related.You are bound to bump into them at least once a year.
If once a year was my case,I could still be ignoring them and just let it slide.Unfortunately,it's a much closer relationship than just meeting once a year.So,I kind put up with their shit for a while.A long while.Then,one day.I just had enough.
So,I literally told them to shut the fuck up and fuck off.They don't pay my bills.They don't raise or feed my kids.They don't provide any form of anything basically for me.So just FUCK OFF.
My life changed after that and I have never been happier.
It's not that I don't ever want to see them again.It's not like I never saw them again.I saw them,several times already.The only difference is that they know what to say and what not to say to me.Which is kinda nice ^_^
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