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 Shu and I got stuck in traffic last week over the STUPID ROAD CONSTRUCTION which was STUPID coz the damn workers put a sign that indicated the left lane was closed and that cars would start migrating to the right lane and later discovers that the right lane was closed and it wasn't the left lane. There is a COMPLETELY DIFFERENT signboard for that btw............IDIOTS!

*sigh*

Anywho, we got to talking about how a lot of ads pop up online and that I sometimes get shocked at the things they are selling coz.......erm.......well,ok.........there was an ad about I dunno......maybe a scrub or something for women to use around ........folds........maybe around the crotch area........ok.......as though that wasn't gross enough,what was stated was even more shockingly disgusting coz well........it went something along the lines of this woman has her husband complaining about how her private smells and is grossly gross.........

SHIT! WTF?! Erm........what ever happened to hygiene? Personal hygiene? Ever heard of it?

This throws me back when I was probably a teenager and my folks and I were at a friend's house. This lady was saying that her daughter wanted to start a finishing school for girls coz most girls needed it. I was quite confused at the time because I was pretty sure most girls knew what it was supposed to be like.......right?

I am not even talking about sitting up right at the dining table with elbows off the table and chewing with your mouth closed. It's more like common sense about personal hygiene.........and well.......being domesticated. Room cleaning. Clothes cleaning. Deodorizers.....

Anywho,years later I found myself and a friend sharing a dorm room in uni with 2 other girls whom we didn't know. They weren't from our faculty. You would think that having girl roommates would mean the room would be tidy and neat all the time. Boy was I so wrong. They'd always have friends over for study groups and they'd have food. They'd usually have them stay overnight and leave the next day. Usually, this happen when my friend and I weren't in the room that night. We'd come back the next day to the room smelling of leftovers which they did not bother to clean out. My friend said that her bed seemed like someone slept on it and I found my cup being used and not cleaned on one of the desks.

I wasn't raised domesticated either but my dad made sure I knew how to clean my bed and my room and how to use a broom properly. Having your own place is quite difficult but the small areas? Come on! At the very least have clean clothes and not let your dirty laundry look like they exploded all over the place.

Shu is a very domesticated human being. When we moved into our own place, I learned a lot about tidying up and cleaning from him but I made sure I kept my personal hygiene in check. Of course, I am quite blunt and honest and so is he so if there was anything that bothered either one of us, we'd let each other know. Also, I need the place to be able to give me peace and mess is definitely NOT the way to go.

I have a lot of girl stuff like makeup and makeup brushes and skincare but everytime I use them, I'd be sure to put them back in their right places. I clean my makeup brushes after each time I use them. I burn candles in the bathroom before showers. I think I'm messy when it comes to the studio and my mind being everywhere during scrapbooking or songwriting........

I am getting off topic..........

For God's sake people! Come on! Personal hygiene! 

P.S. :- One of the main reasons I try very hard not to go to public bathrooms is that women are disgusting when it comes to cleaning up the toilet seat after use ESPECIALLY when it comes to period blood. Erm.........If I ever needed to use the public toilet, I'd have to be sure to run water around the toilet seats and have toilet seat covers coz women are just disgusting.......